Friday, August 17, 2012

The bigger picture it is...


"You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash the plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you don't have a money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done."

Above is an excerpt from one of the most inspiring stories on web that I can relate to.

Thank God it's Friday! :) I was doing my usual random browsing about inspirational things I might get on the web when I bumped on this "Story of Appreciation" (above). I didn't write this story so kudos to the author of this anecdote. This is something worth reading (more than checking Twitter and Facebook updates). And mind you, that highlighted paragraph above was my favorite part.

When I was done reading the story, I suddenly have some realizations and I thought I'd write them and share to the world along with this short story. Here are just some of my random realizations and the screenshot of the entire anecdote:

This is why I am forever thankful to all the hardships I went through even at a young age. I don’t intend to make a write up for my personal bio but I would like to share this to everyone – not to think high of myself but to serve as an inspiration to anyone. My upbringing was not the “mom-dad-I-want-this-I-like-that” type, in fact I always have to work on something I want, even pursue on things that I need. There are times that I get what I want, but most often I don’t. I can still remember those times in which I even have to collaborate with my siblings because, most of the time, it was always a group effort. “Bunso” will not get it if “Ate” will not help him. If one of us won’t lend a hand to one another to accomplish something, then most likely we’ll fail. Thus, no one will get the reward. When I was still a kid, I didn’t quite understand the logic of why my parents always wanted me and my siblings to share on tasks. All we wanted then was to finish the tasks early to get the reward early so we would accomplish those altogether not knowing that was already equivalent to real life outside the house. Some of you may raise eyebrows. Some may think that’s strenuous. Some may also have bubble thoughts of random comments agreeing or not. Well, that may not be the best way of raising one’s children but whichever way I see it I know that my parents just wanted me and my siblings to learn the hard way not to punish us but to let us understand the way of life. And because of those, we grew up stronger and more confident in facing life every day. No fears, no inhibitions. Just exhilaration to move forward and learn new things either from our own mistakes or others.

Below the screenshot of the anecdote and the link in case you want to read it. There are also other articles that you might find inspiring on that site. Enjoy!

Here's the inspiring story.. No copyright infringement intent.

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

The Beauty in Red


"Gentlemen may prefer blondes, but it takes a real man to handle a redhead."

Last Sunday, I have had my hair colored again with red. Very lovely! (Well, that's just me. *winks*)

It was since 2007, when I was in college, that I started dyeing my hair with this passionate blush. I just fell in love with this visually stunning and dramatic color. Yes, there are other common colors like distinctive blondes and brown but that’s the thing, they are very common! While red is most rare hair color in humans, this color has always been my favorite since day one.

Me and my Red-head, just recently.
Actually, the first time I decided to smother my hair with this fiery shade, it was just like a portion of my side bangs. At first I never intended to dye my entire bunch of glory but just like I said, I fell in love with the color so I did have it colored one portion after another. It was like an addiction! Every time the sun rays would touch my hair, the more that my hair looks gorgeous (in my eyes, at least). And not just gorgeous, but gorgeous with an attitude.

Of all the hair colors, red heads may get the most second glances. And I know that most of you, if not all, will agree that redheads will always stand out in a crowd of people. Not because they’re the most uncommon hair color but because red haired people have this special form of beauty that puts them in a class of their own.

Now, you may say I’m writing all of these because I’m a big-headed redhead. That’s another story, though *laughs* But, no. All of these are based from factual observation. Go, figure.


In all honesty, redheads have not always been as valued as they are today. Historically, prejudice and suspicion has always greeted the redhead, along with the belief that they are fiery and hot-tempered. this image, wrong or not, most likely stems from the fact that the Scots, with their high percentage of red-haired people, are descended from the Celts, notoriously violent warriors. It is this perception that spawned many strange and fantastical beliefs and ideas about red hair.

Era by era, redheads have been discriminated. In the ancient Egypt for example, it was reported that Egyptians would pay tribute to their god by burying men with red hair while they were still alive. And in Greek mythology it was thought that red haired people turned into vampires when their life ended. Even in modern times, discrimination still exists in some parts of the world. If you pass a red haired person on the street in Corsica, you’re supposed to spit and turn around. It is unclear if that is supposed to bring good luck or because redheads leave a bad taste in your mouth.

During the Middle Ages, red was seen as the color of the Devil, and it was thought that a child born with red hair was conceived during "that time of the month.” Is that a little too much menstruation information? On the positive note, it’s considered an honor to have a red haired child in Denmark.

Russian tradition declares that red hair is both a sign of fiery temper and craziness, and a proverb warns, "There was never a saint with red hair." Indeed, red hair figures in the Bible. The word Adam is supposedly the Hebrew word for "red" or "ruddy," and Judas is often portrayed with red hair as is Mary Magdalene. King David is thought to have been redhead, and some oven believe the "Mark of Cain" to actually be red hair.

Redheads have also been labeled with epithets that were less than flattering. Throughout history they have been called violent, emotional, hot tempered, crazy, mystical, and unclean. They’ve been called, and had to endure, a range of nicknames and phrases including such oldies as carrot-top, Agent Orange, big red, fireball, and fire truck. They’ve also been greeted with such salutations as “Is your hair on fire?” and “Here comes a fire truck!”

So anyway, to feed everybody’s brain, here are some more tidbits of redhead information I gathered from different sources over the net. This is for those, like myself, who are red heads (whether it natural hair color or hair-dyed), redhead lover and just want to obtain information on redheads. Some myths, legends, historical and little known facts about red hair that you might find interesting:


  • Red hair doesn’t gray as much as other hair colors. Red hair initially tends to turn blond and then white.
  • Approximately 1-2% of humans, or about two in 100 people in the world, have natural red hair
  • Because natural red hair holds its pigment more than other colors, it is harder to dye.
  • Redheaded women report bruising more easily than other women of different hair colors.
  • People with red hair have twice the risk of developing Parkinson’s Disease.
  • Hitler reportedly banned the marriage of redheads in order to prevent “deviant offspring.”
  • Red hair is a recessive trait, which means that a child must inherit one red hair gene from each parent. Recessive traits often come in pairs, and redheads are more likely than other people to be left handed.
  • Some scholars speculate that because Adam was from “red earth” and the Hebrew word for “red” is adom, that Adam was a redhead.
  • Scholars note that redheads have influenced history out of proportion to their numbers. Famous redheads include Roman emperor Nero, Helen of Troy, Cleopatra, the ancient god of love Aphrodite, Queen Elizabeth I, Napoleon Bonaparte, Oliver Cromwell, Emily Dickinson, Antonio Vivaldi, Thomas Jefferson, Vincent Van Gogh, Mark Twain, James Joyce, Winston Churchill, Malcolm X, Galileo, and King David.
  • In ancient Rome, redheaded slaves were often more expensive than those with other hair color.
  • Satan is often portrayed as a redhead most likely because red was viewed as the color of sexual desire and moral degradation.
  • Red hair is a mutation of the MC1R gene on chromosome 16. The mutation blocks the production of eumelanin (dark brown and black pigment), which causes a buildup of the phaeomelanin (red and blond pigments). Some scientists believe that higher levels of phaeomelanin may produce more mutations and dangerous effects when exposed to UV radiation.
  • Ruadh gu brath is Gaelic for “Red heads forever!
  • “Gingerphobia” is a fear of redheads. “Gingerism” is the bullying or prejudice of redheads.
  • Some common surnames in the British Isles reflect the frequency of red hair there, including Flanary (“red eyebrow”), Reid (“red-haired, ruddy complexion”), and Flynn (“bright red”)
  • In France, to be redheaded is thought to be very bad fate.
  • In Poland, if you pass three redheads you'll win the state lottery.
  •  Harvard dermatologist Madhu Pathak calls redheads "three-time losers" because their red pigment is an inadequate filter of sunlight and their skin is more susceptible to sunburn, skin cancer and wrinkling with age.
  • One medical importance of red hair is that individuals with red hair are, on average, more likely to burn in the sun and they are at an increased risk of skin cancer. 
  •  According to legend, the first redhead was Prince Idon of Mu who, upon discovering Atlantis, was imprinted with the island’s stunning red sunset and leaves in the form of red hair and freckles so future generations would be reminded of Atlantis’ first sunset
There you go! That’s definitely plenty of information to absorb about redheads. Mind you, I enjoyed reading them when I was still in the process of collecting the data. Although most of them gives negative impression, still I won’t dye my hair with any other color as much as I do with my red hair. And no matter what were the legends, myths or history say about red hair, I am still proud to be a redhead in my own way.


Remember, red hair is not just a hair color, it's an attitude!





Sources:
http://facts.randomhistory.com/redhead-facts.html
http://www.ginga.co.nz/?sid=14


Sunday, June 3, 2012

First entry, again. :)

So, right. This is my first ever entry after years of not doing weblogs. And I'm excited to start posting again because seriously I have a lot to share. :)


Three or four years ago, I also did blogging. And when I came across those posts today, I realized that was really the younger me - fragile, naive (at times) but sensible. And me, today, is so much improved and changed. Hah, I'm not writing all these to brag about myself (oh yes, so much of a bragging right) but to prove there was a really big difference between the Jalyn now and the Jalyn three to four years ago.


So yes, there's more to look forward to. For the meantime, let me share to you how and why I came up with the page title "The world as I see it..."


Besides the fact that the title itself will be suitable for my upcoming posts, it really is a line and title of a song by Jason Mraz from his new released album entitled Love is Four Letter Word. It's a general knowledge that Mraz is one of the best singers of his generation so no wonder why a lot of music lovers, including myself, look up to him. Furthermore, the song itself has very inspiring lyrics. Actually, most, if not all of Mraz's songs have inspiring and near-to-real-life lyrics. But that's gonna be another story.


I pasted below the lyrics I copied from MetroLyrics.com and video of Jason Mraz singing the same song during his Acoustic Live Concert in Manila with Toca Rivera (I was there! It was a surprise treat from my dear love). The video though wasn't uploaded by me but from YouTube. I don't mean any copyright infringement for this video. :)


By the way, back to the lyrics of the songs, my favorite lines are those in bold letters. :)



The World As I See It
by: Jason Mraz


The world as I see it, is a remarkable placeA beautiful house in a forest, of stars in outer space.From a birds eye view, I can see it has a well-rounded personalityFrom a birds eye view, I can see we are family.
It's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youNo it's not a difficult thing.It's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youBecause you are the world to me.
Yeah the world as I see it, is a remarkable placeEvery man makes a differenceAnd every mothers child is a saintFrom a birds eye view I can see, we are spiralling down in gravityFrom a birds eye view I can see, you are just like me.
It's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youNo it's not a difficult thing.It's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youUnconditionally.
No it's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youNo it's not a difficult thing.It's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youBecause you are the world to me. You are the mountain, you are the rockYou are the cord and you're the sparkYou are the eagle, you are the larkYou are the world and you're remarkable
You're the ocean eating the shoreYou are the calm inside the stormYou're every emotion, you can endureYou are the world, the world is yours.
(It's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youNo it's not a difficult thing.It's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youUnconditionally)
No it's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youNo it's not a difficult thing.It's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youUnconditionally.
No it's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youNo it's not a difficult thing.It's not hard for me to love youHard for me to love youBecause you are the world to me.
Yeah the world as I see it, is a remarkable place.